- GF and I are going to the club for the first time, BUT...
- New Guy Here...With Familiar Dilemma
- Polyamory and threesome - wife is interested - what to do?
- What if there is an "awkwardness" after
- Starting things off with a BANG!!
- Soft-swap question
- Why does this bring of a red flag?
- Should I Encourage or?
- first 3some advice
- Jealousy issues and over coming them.
- Possibly new to swinging, looking for mentors
- New and need stories/advice
- Jealousy issues...
- Home town or travel a bit? And... friends or co-workers a definite 'no?'
- How do swingers address each other in a meet and greet situation
- trying to get started, but wife is sexually uptight
- New couple, looking for alternatives other than clubs
- Hi we are very new at this! Starting off Slow
- Arrange this surprise for wife, or no?
- Question about first experience in the club
- first pick for first threesome
- can you start dating a man and start swinging at the same time?
- Need a little advice
- Wife brought up FFM, curious yet apprehensive
- The best way to get some ideas
- New & Young, how do we get started?
- Apart or Together???
- Looking for the right soft porn video to help me convince my wife
- Talking to my wife
- Questions I have had, about cheating
- We are starting today, requesting advice
- When it happens should they stay the night or leave?
- Have friend in mind. Should I ask?
- The first step is?
- Finally we are here, but where to start from?
- best way to bring up subject for full swinging
- Hello to all - wanna try Threesome MFF
- What do you do when the play is over?
- We have found we enjoy bi women...do we belong in 'the lifestyle'
- A few unique questions ...
- In need of suggestions
- OMG inner slut is loose!
- Forty, Fifty something women: sex with younger guy (20-something)- problem for you?
- What if he has a much larger penis than me?
- Here for Help in understanding Wife's signals.
- Finding the Right guy for our first MFM Threesome
- What is Swinging and a Swinger?
- should 1st experience be a man from wife's past?
- Newbies for sure
- Is it better to start with a single or a couple?
- elderly couple wants to get into swinging
- not sure where to start
- Oral only
- Taking the first step
- What do you mean by Unicorn?
- confused by response
- Newbees: Eager to start but getting tired of fakes and letdowns!
- Is she ready?
- Buyer's Remorse
- Past Indiscretions and Affects on Swinging
- Wife finally found some one she "likes"
- Wow! So Much to Learn!!!
- Aren't I enough for you?
- Hello from Montana...NEW at swinging.. Is this right for us?
- First time Advice?
- Are We Swingers?
- She is curious, I have questions
- How do you approach a single woman "Unicorn" ?
- How common is this? She has no interest in other men
- How Do You Know When You're Ready To Swing?
- Interesting analogies for justifying the lifestyle
- Finding the right mix
- Where to look for other couples??
- Wife not comfortable watching people have sex in public
- A question for the straight women - does how the other woman looks matter to you?
- Different Levels of Swinging?
- am I Bi-curious?? and other questions
- Trying to get hubby on the same page
- How to get started: Best places & ad sites for newbies in Las Vegas???
- How does this work?...communicating, touching, kissing?
- Is it wise to start with a MFM threesome?
- Is My Wife Interested in Pursuing Swinging?
- Advice: Wife OK with fantasy, not with reality
- First time, considering a close friend
- Checklist for what you can do/can't do?
- advice? : I finally told the wife I want a MMF experience...
- A newbies guide to getting started in the Lifestyle
- a question for the ladies about jealousy
- Help - Getting Used to Your Partner Being With Someone Else
- We are a new couple - where to look for men to do my wife?
- How do you handle the letdown?
- Like a Virgin propositioned for first MFM threesome
- new to the scene in los angeles - looking for info on local scene
- First time Experience - are threesomes easier?
- Kinda Lost - Discovered our shared fantasy was actually part of his past
- Changes - Swingers vs Vanilla lifestyles
- Are these just fantasies she doesn't want to act on?
- First Encounter with someone from her past?
- Newbie - Sharing some feedback
- The opportunity.
- Wife has morals
- How do things work at hotel parties?
- Newbies - overcoming one's insecurities
- Ladies, what was your 'pre-swinging' mindset
- Do you ever help newbies
- First time MFM - due diligence questions
- Looking for first time
- Looking for guidance and direction from others
- Too Early on to Play?
- New friends or Old friends?
- i want to watch my boyfriend with another women!
- Meeting Someone and Going To Their Place???
- Want to swing, my wife is not open to idea. Any advice?
- Who makes the approach in a club setting? (was: Wanting Excitement from Intros)
- Separating the emotional from the physical?
- Getting ready checklist for first trip to on-premise club
- Swinging with couples or Clubs - That is the question
- What if I meet someone I know through work?
- Thought Jealousy?
- How important is the experience of the third?
- Questions for the potential 3rd
- Safety Plans when meeting new people?
- Advice for the First Threesome? - Calming Nerves
- is my co-worker putting me on?
- First Question - is being with women a requirement?
- Looking for first experience with another couple
- Can I trust us?
- How to proceed?
- Your Top 3?
- are all swinging ladies fit and attractive?
- Dealing with being nude in front of others...
- Interracial Swinging
- Newbie Question - splitting up at a party
- Jealousy, Your first time...
- Can't seem to find the right words!
- Approaching a Couple?
- Would like to begin with Soft Swap
- Single female - will i be like tossing a dead animal in a lion cage?
- New to the swinging scene
- Trouble getting started
- Need Advice
- Starting with women
- How do you feel about newbs who don't swap?
- 24, New to The Lifestyle...Questions about finding female for third
- First club venture and question about finding couples
- Fullfilling my wife's Birthday fantasy
- Confused??
- Worried about splitting attention
- Seeing what folks thought out there
- Oral sex and partner expectations
- Doubts and More!!!
- First Time - Watching?
- Question about her first bi-experience
- Running into someone you know
- A question about swinging
- Boyfriend having doubts
- Webcam Play to Start?
- MFM? ...Well you see
- How To "NOT" Get Started?
- Does she want something more?
- making progress
- Is she ready for the "real Deal"?
- GF plays alot
- How do we get past the shyness?
- Need Guidance
- Trying to coach her into the lifestyle...
- For the Guys before a MFM
- Boyfriend wants us to have mmf
- Just wanted to here some opinions on this (penis not responding the way I want it to)
- Help Letting Go and Taking the Plunge
- Just the facts. Need your advice.
- Having a MFM
- Finding the lucky 3rd?
- What if I cum to early!!
- Help!! We really want to but....
- soft swinging?
- Ladies, if your S-O looked like Brad Pitt, would you be as willing to share him?
- approaching a couple...
- What's next?
- How to Get Started?
- Live in friends???
- Swinging young.
- Does she really want MFM?
- Questions about establishing relationship with single female and talking to my wife
- Hurdles on the road to swinging
- Breaching the boundries with our friends
- We made the jump, joined Swing Lifestyle! Is it worth paying the membership?
- How do I know if I am going to get jealous or not...
- Are we Swingers? Trying to determine if we fit in?
- Can Swinging, really spice it up?
- I'm interested, hubby maybe not....
- Trying to talk my wife into swinging
- Have a Male (Long-time) Friend Join Us
- How does swinging work when traveling?
- Having a playmate stay over the weekend?
- How to explain to my wife that I really want to try swinging...
- An Issue of Understanding
- Have been curious but afraid
- Are we right for a threesome?
- Help! Getting Started
- Desire and more Desire
- How To Use An Escort Service?
- Hello all any advice for the newbie?
- Advice for larger couples on getting started
- Is it Easier When Out Of Town?
- Considering swinging with friends
- Hello...learning about the lifestyle!
- Can't Stop Wondering if others are swingers
- Approaches: is there such a thing as too blunt?
- How to find F/F fun without a male involved
- How to test the waters?
- Do experienced swingers ever swing with new swingers?
- Still Just Thinking At This Point - Trying to decide of swinging is the right option
- Swinging for the wrong reasons
- How do you feel watching your partner with someone else? (Was:The other person.)
- How do you know if this is just a fantasy or not?
- MFM threesome -friend for first time experience? (was: Something to break the ice...)
- how to over come her fears
- Can't agree on whether or not to swing with single females
- Bringing in fantasy co-worker
- How often should we swing?
- Small Town - Playing in your backyard???
- How do we get our wives to take their clothes off?
- threesome:FMF...when the second female is not single
- Is our fantasy likely to become a reality?
- What seems like a good idea at first...
- Questions About Camming
- Baby steps or dive head first into the experience?
- Wife is not interested
- I want to go to a club but.....
- Rules are set but do they ever change during the "FUN"?
- How do most couples start out in the swinging lifestyle?
- No today may be yes tomorrow then what?
- We've decided on starting out at a Club now what?
- How do you get over the "Jiggles"
- Do you mix swinger and non-swinger friends?
- We agreed, now where to start?
- Some questions based on a swinger story
- I just want to understand
- Making A Mental Adjustment
- Is a club a good idea for a mature couples first time?
- Need some Expert advice. Looking to start swinging.
- Is this a sign??
- Wife open to swinging while in heat of the moment (was: Hi from Scotland)
- How to start with wife?
- Shaking the foundations of a relationship
- First Meeting EVER!
- troubleshooting
- Need Help
- My wife has a theory